Winning isn't about finishing in first place. It
isn't about beating the others. It is about overcoming
yourself. Overcoming your body, your limitations, and
your fears. Winning means surpassing yourself
and turning your dreams into reality."
After deciding last night to ride a century rather than search for gravel, I head toward Orleans. Nearing Medora, however, my way is blocked. While I have waded these waters before, I decide to change my route and go to Story instead. I know it is open on Sundays. So many stores and restaurants in little towns don't open on Sundays. And so many small stores have closed. This definitely influences my decision as I was at Story recently and would rather have gone elsewhere today.
I do end up wading the flood waters in Brownstown on my way to Freetown, but they were not as deep or as wide as the Medora waters. Briefly I think of Steve Rice, Steve Meredith, and I wading the waters of Medora. Neither was too happy with me that day, but they survived. I remind myself to think of what roads might be flooded as I plan my return trip, but I have until 9:00 with day light. I have not yet stuck my winter light on the bike, so I do need to be in before then.
I think of yesterday's sixty miler, particularly Paul's comment about brevets and why anyone would want to do them. He reminds me of my husband in this. Lloyd never understood it and often asked why I do that to myself. He supported me, but he never understood. So today I spent some time thinking about it as next year will be the time to begin to decide about the next PBP, 2019.
I am just starting to feel a bit like myself. Those who have never suffered a significant loss will not understand this. And those that have that are different than me will not understand it. Many think I am weak, and perhaps I am. But it is just how it has been for me. Recently I turned while mowing and thought I caught a glimpse of him, and I was undone for the evening, unscabbed and bleeding. A friend who lost a child told me that our loved ones check on us. But as I said, other than the odd moment or two, I am almost back to being myself. I sing and joke and laugh. I am interested in things again. I ride my bike not because I made myself to retain any semblance of sanity, but because I want to, the way I used to want to.
As I ride, I wonder if I will recall my route that bypasses 135 because I am heartily sick of riding on 135. It is not that it is extremely busy. It is not. But it has more cars than I like and while scenic, it lacks the beauty of the side roads. There is a dearth of side roads to the north, I think due to Lake Monroe being built many years ago, but there are roads to the south that parallel the main road. I know I will have to be on 58 for awhile and I remember reading it was closed in places. It closes right at my turn. I do find the roads, somehow, because I am quite directionally challenged.
I return my wandering thoughts yet again to brevets and whether I have any desire to ride any longer brevets. And I don't have the answer. What I decide is not to decide yet, either way. See how my knees do, how my mind does. There truly is no rush to make a decision. And it is a big decision, because brevets require commitment and desire, and they require mental and physical discipline as well as the ability to endure pain. But I am glad that I have done brevets, no matter how crazy they may seem, because Mr. Jornet is right. It is about overcoming yourself. You are your own greatest asset and your own greatest liability. And only you can decide if conquering yourself, your pains, your fears, your tiredness, is worth it.
The day is hot and I end up with 107 miles and moderate hills. I am tired. But I am glad that I rode. Yep, I am getting back to being me.